Telling Your Story- Embryo Recipients

The importance

In an age of DNA analysis and increased access to ancestry, it has never been more important to be open and transparent about a person’s family history.
It is important children hear the information from their own parents & family in a way that hold significance to the family unit and speaks to the uniqueness and individuality of that child.
As children become adults, information on their medical history holds increased importance.
Be proud of the path that made you a family. Your kids were very much longed for and conceived with love and generosity.
Be honest, open and acknowledge their feelings. Be there for them

Guiding Principles

Focus on “How we became a family” rather than “how you were made”
Genes make people, love makes a family
It is never too early or too late to start the conversation
There is no “right” or “wrong” way
Donor conceived children are VERY much loved and wanted
Find your own words that fit your family
Speak from love
Don’t try to be perfect or put it off waiting for the “right time”
Encourage questions
Speak of it gently, but often changing the language and level of detail as the child grows

A great place to start…..

I / we are so happy to be your parent. I / we need to work so hard to make you. I’m grateful that the donor helped us become a family!

This information was modified utilising content from the VARTA website www.varta.org.au